@olze,
I work in IT as well, unfortunately my experience is with SCCM and application packaging, so I only have the bare minimum SQL experience, so would be unable to assist with this. I apologize if I offended you. It sounded like you were complaining and many amateur admins like to chime in because they have some experience hosting a Call Of Duty or Discord server and think they know everything. If you are a database admin, then obviously you do know what you are talking about and I am sure they would appreciate any help they can get. As Unleashed2k mentioned, he is trying to manage most of it on his own while working a full time job. Again, my apologies if I offended you.