I've created a tone in game . what folder do I find it in to add it in the tone part of toolkit

Click import in the toolkit and then once you find the steam folder in your computer open up userdata folder, followed by 174678821, then folder 221680, then the folder remote. When you first open the last folder nothing will show up. You'll need to change the file display type from its default setting which is Rocksmith 2014 PC/Mac Package to the XBox360 package. Just click on the drop down menu and you'll see it. Once You select that there should be 3 files. The one you'll click on has a very long file name. Should be e6a6a303337a405d9421....... etc. Open that file and viola, you'll have you're list of tones that are saved. What I usually do as well is when the tone files are imported, I'll open them in the toolkit with edit and save that tone to a general location so I don't need to import them again.